Have you ever planned something fun or important and then decided not to follow through on your plans because of a change in circumstances. Are you able to follow through and finish what you start even if the change in circumstances if very challenging?
Let me tell you another true story.
Many years ago, my friends and I decided to have a barbecue on a Labor Day Monday on Bradford Beach in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Bradford Beach is on Milwaukee’s east side lakefront on the western shore of Lake Michigan.
On Sunday before that Labor Day Monday, it was sunny, with a temperature was in the 70’s and no wind. We bought all the food and made all the other preparations for our barbecue. We got the charcoal, the grill, the lawn chairs, the volleyball net, a Frisbee, and a football together and ready for loading in the cars.
However, none of us bothered to check the weather. That was a big mistake. Overnight, a cold front came through with heavy rain, the temperature dropped into the 50’s with a northeast wind that was howling at about 25 miles-per-hour and creating very large waves at the beach and blowing sand with the intensity of a sandblaster.
We had such a good time, this Labor Day barbecue was probably the best holiday barbecue we ever had, in spite of the very challenging conditions. I do not think we ever had more fun or laughed as hard as we did that Labor Day.
On a typical Labor Day weekend, all of the local news stations do stories about people engaging in different activities and enjoying the last few days of summer.
That Labor Day weekend was no exception. Since we were the only people on the beach for miles having a barbecue in heavy rain in 50 degree temperatures, the local reporters who worked for the ABC, CBS and NBC affiliates all stopped to interview us to have us explain why we were still out on the beach having our barbecue. The edited interviews were all shown on the 10 pm news on all three local news stations. All of friends and neighbors saw the interviews and thought the whole experience was hilarious.
We created a memory and life experience we still all talk about. We all followed through in spite of the change of circumstances and very challenging circumstances. That Labor Day, we also used up all of our “15 minutes of fame.”
So how can you follow through and finish what you start when circumstances in your life change and things do not go as you planned them?
Having the ability to follow through in challenging circumstances will allow you to create a positive impact in your life and in the life of others and may even allow you to capture some of your own 15 minutes of fame.
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Stephen Lesavich, PhD
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