Dr. Stephen Lesavich
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You read someone’s introduction online. The words are polished. The accomplishments sound impressive. The photograph looks flawless.
But when you meet the person, something feels different. The conversation does not sound like the introduction. The image does not quite match the individual. You find yourself wondering how much of what you saw represented the person you are meeting and what was authentic.
Artificial Intelligence (AI) gives you tools to shape how you present ourself. It can help you write a biography, organize your thoughts, improve a photograph, prepare a presentation or create a new resume Used thoughtfully, these AI tools can help you communicate more clearly.
What Does Being Authentic Mean?
Being authentic means presenting yourself in a way that reflects your values, experiences, abilities, and intentions. Your words and images should give people a fair understanding of the person they will encounter.
Bening authentic does not require sharing every detail of your life. You can maintain privacy, choose your words carefully, and present yourself professionally.
The essential connection is between what you present and what you can honestly stand behind that was created by AI.
If you describe yourself as a good listener, do you make room for other people to speak? If your biography emphasizes collaboration, do you welcome contributions that challenge your ideas? If you offer business or coaching expertise, can you explain its basis and acknowledge your expertise?
Authenticity becomes visible through those everyday choices.
When AI Starts to Hide the Person
Imagine asking AI to improve a short professional biography. Your original version says you helped organize a community event. The revised version describes you as a visionary leader who transformed community engagement.
The revised language may sound impressive, but it changes the claim. Helping organize an event and transforming a community are different accomplishments.
You remain responsible for choosing the description that reflects what happened.
The same consideration applies to photographs, personal stories, social media posts, and professional introductions. A helpful AI edit can make your message easier to understand. An invented achievement or an experience added by AI you never had creates an expectation you cannot fulfill honestly.
The test is simple: Can the person behind the presentation support the impression created by AI?
Your Own Voice Has It’s Own Value Outside AI
Perhaps you speak in short, direct sentences. Perhaps you use humor, ask thoughtful questions, or explain ideas through stories from your own life. Those qualities help people recognize you.
Using AI may smooth away the unusual phrase you would naturally use or replace a specific memory with a general statement. The result can read well while revealing very little about you as a person.
Before using AI content read it aloud. Notice where you hesitate. Would you actually say those words to another person? Do you believe the AI message? Is there a concrete example from your experience that would make it more meaningful then those created with AI.
A simple sentence you actually create will carry more weight than an impressive paragraph written by AI that you will struggle to explain.
How can you present yourself in an authentic way.
Three Practical Ways to Present Yourself Authentically
1. Begin With Your Own Thoughts
Before opening an any AI tool, write downsentences in your own words. Identify what you believe, what you have experienced, and what you want someone to understand about you.
For a biography, list your actual responsibilities and accomplishments. For a personal social media post, identify the observation or experience that prompted it. For a presentation, decide what you want to say before asking for help with how to say it. For a new resume, write down your actual experience in your own words.
Give the AI tools something real to work with.
2. Review the Impression You Create
For any created by AI, review more than spelling and grammar. Look at the expectations your AI created content establishes.
Ask yourself:
- Is every claim accurate?
- Does this sound like something I would say?
- Have I implied experience or expertise I do not have?
- Does this image fairly represent me for its intended purpose?
- Would I feel comfortable discussing how I created this material?
Revise anything created by AI that leaves you feeling you would need to explain any the differences later.
When AI’s role would materially affect how someone understands your work or presentation, explain that role clearly in your own words.
3. Follow Your Words With Consistent Actions
Your introduction begins a relationship. Your behavior gives it substance.
Listen when you say you value connection. Follow through when you offer cooperation. Share credit when you describe yourself as collaborative. Make room for others to shape an outcome when you invite co-creation.
These actions give your words credibility. They also allow people to know you beyond a photograph, profile, or carefully prepared post.
The next time you use AI to prepare a social media post, update your biography, or choose a profile image, create a new resume pause before you publish.
Consider whether someone meeting you afterward would actually recognize the authentic person instead of the AI created version.
Being authentic in everything you do will create a positive impact in your life.
Out There on the Edge of Everything®…
Stephen Lesavich, PhD
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Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.
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