Pivot anyone?

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Pivoting in your personal life refers to a crossroads in your life and making a significant shift in your habits, priorities, or goals in response to changes in your circumstances or a realization about what you want now in your life and your desire to attract something different.

Pivoting is particularly relevant in today’s fast-paced, ever-changing world, where personal flexibility and adaptability are crucial for person growth and fulfillment.

What is Personal Pivoting?

1. A New Direction: Pivoting is about changing course from a path that no longer serves you, whether in career, relationships, or lifestyle, to a new path.
2. Proactive Change: Pivoting is not just about reacting to change but recognizing opportunities to align your life with your authentic self.
3. Embracing Growth: Pivoting is about personal development and embracing a mindset of continuous learning to be true to yourself.

Why Might You Pivot?

• Personal Dissatisfaction: You feel unfulfilled or stuck in a current role, relationship, or routine.
• External Factors: Unexpected life events (e.g., job loss, relocation, health challenges) force an unwanted change.
• Changing Goals: As you evolve, your values and aspiration shift, requiring a new approach.
• Burnout or Stress: Recognizing the need for balance and sustainable habits push you toward a pivoting change.

How can you pivot effectively in your own life?

How to Pivot Effectively:

1. Self-Reflection
   • Identify why you want or need a change. Ask yourself questions like, What’s not working? What do you truly value? What do I want to do next?
   • Journaling, mindfulness, or talking with a trusted friend or coach can help clarify your thoughts.
2. Set Clear Goals
   • Define what success looks like for you in this new pivoted direction.
   • Use frameworks like SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) to set new goals.
3. Start Small
   • Begin with manageable steps that build momentum toward larger changes.
   • For instance, if pivoting careers, chart a new course or network in the new field.
4. Reframe Fear
   • Change can be intimidating, but view it as an opportunity rather than a risk.
   • Focus on the potential growth and benefits rather than the discomfort of the unknown and its associated fear and the chaos of change.
5. Seek Support
   • Surround yourself with people who encourage and support your growth.
   • A mentor, coach, or supportive community can provide guidance and accountability.
6. Be Patient
   • A pivot is a process, not a one-time event.
   • Allow yourself grace as you adapt and grow into your new path.

Examples of Personal Life Pivots:

• Career Changes: Transitioning from a stable corporate job to pursuing a passion, project, freelance work, becoming an entrepreneur etc.
• Health and Wellness: Shifting from a sedentary lifestyle to one focused on physical and mental well-being.
• Relationships: Letting go of relationships that no longer serve you and focusing on building healthier connections.
• Habits: Replacing old habits with new ones, like adopting mindfulness practices, reducing screen time, or committing to a creative hobby or new activity.

The Rewards of Pivoting:

• Renewed sense of purpose and fulfillment.
• Alignment with your authentic self.
• Personal growth and resilience through embracing the chaos of change.
• Expanded horizons and opportunities.

Pivoting isn’t just about abandoning everything.

Instead pivoting is about adjusting your trajectory to better align with your current goals and values.

By embracing change thoughtfully and intentionally through pivoting, you can create a positive impact in your life.

Out There on the Edge of Everything®…

Stephen Lesavich, PhD

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Certified solution-focused life coach and experienced business coach.

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